Being genuine and authentic – from Goddess

Good evening,

I have been struggling with losing myself in the expectations and disappointments of those around me.  It is something I have done all my life.  It is a choice I make and I am shifting.  Isn’t this great advice?
 
I love you,
Paul

The choices you have are endless.  You can choose to come here or not.  You can choose to ignore the ideas or not.  You can be with Us or be somewhere else.  It is all there for you to discover and enjoy.

Guilt is not productive for you because it keeps you in the past and worrying about what others think.  When you live for others and only focus on what they have for you, you are lost in the concerns around you.  Even when you worry about what We think about you or what you are not doing for Us, you are lost in the ideas of worry about issues outside of yourself. 

Easier to be genuine
Easier to be genuine

You cannot be healthy and focus on what others want from you.  What they teach you and what you can learn from others is substantial and important for your growth, but obsessing on what you are “not” or what you are not doing based on others’ assessments, will keep you wandering around and confused.

You become powerful when you find the area of passion you have and what you want to be and then pursue those directions.  You find new ways of being because you concentrate on becoming the person you like to be and use the ideas of others to help you excel beyond what you are doing by yourself.

You find your purpose and meaning by going after the areas of life you enjoy and are fulfilled by.  Then when you give up your body to the earth, you will have lived as you wanted to and in ways that are genuine and authentic.

Go away from the externals and back to the internal impulses.  They are always more true and able to inspire and lift you.

Generosity – from Jesus

Good morning!

I received this gem and wanted to share it with you.  Isn’t it a beautiful way to look at life?  What could happen if we all saw the generosity of the Universe and was generous at the same level?  
 
I love you,
Paul

Generosity is a very important trait.  It is nice to be generous.  It is fun to be generous.  Generous people often get generosity poured into their lives from unknown sources and they can, in return, be even more generous.

Generosity is a quality of your soul.  Giving and giving freely is a very basic characteristic of who you are.  Giving is what you are made for and giving often fills your own well with abilities to give more.

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When you give generously, you feel better.  When you give without interest in what you get back, you have even more fun.  When you give without wanting a thank you or without any expectations, you find more joy in life and in giving. 

Think what you have been given.  You have life and abundance.  Think what you are receiving daily in the way of love and information.  Think how you are given to in innumerable ways and you will see how the Universe is.

When you emulate your situation and give freely to others, you have many opportunities come your way.  You can realize the depth of giving to you and realize just how much you have to give.  You can give endlessly without running out of gifts.  You can give until it feels like there is no more to give and yet you can.

Be generous and see what your life becomes.

What if time and money both go away?

Good morning,

Do you ever think about getting old or not having enough money?  How much of your life is consumed by these concerns?  What would you do with your life if they didn’t exist or were less important?
 
This message has really got me thinking.  What are your thoughts?  I would love to hear.
 
Love always,
Paul

So much of your life revolves around money and time.  These are the concerns facing you all the time and you deal with them in varying ways.  You don’t want to be old and you don’t want to be poor.  Both of these notions signify failure, giving up and being incapable.  It doesn’t look good to be impotent and weak does it?

It does not feel comfortable to have trends in your life where you feel powerless to change them.  Age marches on each day and you have money constraints all the time as well.  They both combine with other trends and gang up on your views of what you are doing with your life and how you are living inside of all the expectations you have for yourself.

When you add the layers of expectations other people put on you, it gets even heavier.  People look down on you, they want to push you out and find others to fill your shoes who are younger and more energetic.  You have energy concerns and have to push yourself more to keep your body going and keep relevant and interesting.

What if you could take the concerns about time and money away?  How would you live then?  Would you turn into a lazy, unhappy person without the pressures?  How would you behave with only your creativity and desire to produce in place?  In many ways, both of these concerns are invented by you and your societies. 

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At the soul level, there is no time.  At the soul level, money and things are temporary.  Many of the concerns paramount in your consciousness are not even present in other spheres.  What do you choose, knowing the concerns you have the most problem with; namely, money and time, are not even long term concerns? 

What else would you do with your life and your time if you have a clearer view of what is important, long term?

There are some provocative thoughts.  What will you do with this new awareness?

Every day, you make a new you

Hi,

Life can be so frustrating at times and people don’t seem to respond the way I want them to.  There are so many options and what do each of them produce?  As I was thinking about all this, the Man came through with something even more perplexing and deep.
 
I love you,
Paul

Every day you make a new you.  Each moment you decide what you want to think about and what you want to do.  Each of these decisions makes you what you are and how you appear to others.  Every word, every motion, every thought and expression is a building block creating who you are.

People respond to what you say.  People make assessments about you by what you text and how you treat them.  What you talk about is key to creating your identity but what you do is even bigger.  Even when you are quiet and listen, you are establishing who you and how you react to what is going on around you. 

When you write something and share it, your identity changes.  When you speak something and do something with something someone else says, you are becoming something to them.  Each smile, each frown, each complaint shapes who you are with those you are with. 

You can appear competent and helpful or you can resist and find fault.  You have ideas to share and you can let others express themselves ahead of you.  What does that say about you and how do you show up when you do what you choose?

The opportunity is to re-create yourself each day.  What do you put your energy into and how do you move and shake?  What is important to you and how do you invest your time?  Do you spend time doing things not important to you?  If you do what you want to do, how does that show up with others? 

Ultimately, this is your gig and trying to please others and get them to like you is rather frustrating.  If you do have someone who likes you, don’t you start taking it for granted anyway?  What do you do to keep a relationship going and what do you do to push people away if it gets to stuffy or difficult to manage? 

Deciding what actions you will take and what results you want can be difficult.  You can also get lost in the path of only looking outside of yourself for acceptance.  What do you really want at the soul level?  If all you want are superficial things, will you ever get them?  What do you really want and will you be satisfied if you get them?

Life shows you to yourself.  Life also challenges you to find the deeper, more fundamental desires and then tempts you to look elsewhere for what you think you want.  Can you stay focused on the areas you really want?  Do you even know what you really want?

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